Straight answers. No hedging.

Two things, used together. NLP — working with the structure of your inner experience: the images, inner dialogue and feelings that shape how you respond. And the Steve Andreas Self-Concept model, which works directly with your inner sense of who you are. It’s structural identity work: practical, testable in the room, and named plainly. The method isn’t the pitch — the work is.

It sits between the two, and does neither. Therapy treats what’s broken; goal-and-habit coaching sets targets and tracks them. This works one level beneath both — at who you take yourself to be — because that’s the layer your patterns actually run on. Most people feel the shift by the second or third session.

Leaders, founders, and high performers at a point where the old version of them won’t carry the next chapter. We work most with people leaving finance, people living and leading between countries, and founders and CEOs carrying a load they’ve outgrown — and with anyone building a fuller personal life. If you read that and quietly think this is me, that’s where we begin.

English, German, Portuguese, and Turkish — each with a native-speaking coach, not a translation. Phil coaches in English and German; Franz and Karsten in German; Sandra in Portuguese; Barbara in English; Özlem in Turkish. It’s a deliberately international team, distributed across three continents.

This is 1:1 work, sold as a structured arc rather than by the hour — because real change happens over a series of sessions, not a single conversation. Engagements run from one focused, defining shift over a few months to a year of close partnership, with a dedicated line to your coach between sessions throughout. Private engagements sit broadly in the region of €3,800 to €13,500 (roughly $4,400 to $15,500), depending on how deep and how long we go. We choose the right fit together on a first call.

Sessions are 60–90 minutes, focused on real work rather than small talk. For most clients that’s around two to four sessions a month. Time is your most valuable asset — we treat it that way.

Yes. We work online and design schedules around your rhythm, not the other way around. All you need is a stable connection — the work travels with you.

You’re not on your own between sessions. Every engagement includes a dedicated WhatsApp line to your coach, so the work doesn’t stall when life moves, plus access to the Built4More community of people doing this work alongside you. We don’t disappear, and we built in support for the harder stretches.

Completely. What you bring stays between you and your coach — that’s the ground the work stands on. You can be honest here in a way that often isn’t safe in the rooms you’re usually in, and that honesty is exactly the point.

Built4More is a six-person team, each credentialed in their field. Phil, the founder, is NLP-trained and comes from thirty years of international business, banking and trading — he sat at the desk before he did this work. The wider team brings certified expertise across communication and team dynamics, family and relationship systems, and trauma-informed methods, in four languages. You can read each coach’s background on the team page.

Yes — and you should. The first conversation is free, and you don’t need to have anything figured out to have it. Tell us where you are and what’s most pressing; we read every message ourselves and reply personally. Email info@built4more.org to arrange a conversation.